Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Eliza Goddard with the following comment:
My mother's maiden name was Goddard and this branch originated in Worlingworth, Suffok, before moving to Beddington, Surrey. I have an Eliza in our tree, whose date of birth I have as 5/9/85, so this could be her, although there is no trace of her after the 1851 census. If this is her she would have been my great-aunt. I'm so sorry you've experienced the problems stated below, but you definitely have my thanks!